Monday, July 6, 2015

A Grandparent's Love by Tina Williams

It seems like only yesterday
Our lives were just beginning.
Your love for us never failed,
Our hearts continually mending.

It is strange to watch the time fly
Before our very eyes,
Which reminds me of the blessing,
That we have you in our lives.

To have yet to feel the touch
That's as gentle as your hand
The closeness of our family
One could never understand.

As each of our lives
Continue to change,
Reflections of your love
In each of us remains.

You have pointed out the path
And led us along the way;
The wisdom you have planted,
We each still hold today.

You sheltered us through childhood
And saw us through today,
Taught us of the Lord above,
About faith, and how to pray.

One day we'll all be in heaven
Dancing on the throne,
Praising God for giving us
A family like we've never known.

No matter where our lives may go,
We will trust the Lord above
And through it all always thank him for our grandparents' love.

© Tina Williams 

Friday, June 26, 2015

Gemma Bovery—Movie Review

by Peter J. O'Connell

Gemma Bovery. Released (USA): May 2015. Runtime: 99 mins. Rated: R for sexuality/nudity and language. 

Tragicomedy is a difficult genre to bring off successfully, Just the right degree of drollery has to be maintained throughout. Too much, and the work becomes silly. Too little, and it becomes sad. But when the amount is correctly calibrated, both brain and funny bone are stimulated. The French and British seem more adept at the genre than other nationalities.

The current film Gemma Bovery is a case in point. It has a French director, Anne Fontaine, but is based on a graphic novel by the British writer Posy Simmonds, who made her work a contemporary riff on the classic 1856 novel Madame Bovary by French author Gustave Flaubert. The cast is both French and British.

The plot of the film centers around Martin (Fabrice Luchini), a middle-aged, rather nerdy fellow who has moved back from Paris to a small town in Normandy to run his late father's bakery. Martin is very dedicated to his baking but is virtually obsessed with Flaubert's pioneering realistic novel about the tragic fate of an adultress, Emma Bovary, in a small town in Normandy.

Martin's bibliophilia almost consumes him when a British couple moves into the area. The couple's name is Bovery—and the beautiful wife's name is Gemma (played by Gemma Arterton!). Martin feels compelled to try to act as a kind of mentor to Gemma, encouraging her—without much success—to read the novel but avoid the pitfalls that beset Emma Bovary.

Eventually, pitfalls do beset Gemma, but they are given quite a different spin from those in Flaubert. In the meantime, we are served up a delightful cinematic sampling of French provincial life—walks in the countryside, the camaraderie of neighbors, mouthwatering repasts of bread, cheese and wine. (It is somewhat troubling, however, to learn that even French bakers now are making low-cal bread!)

The acting is delightful, too. Fabrice Luchini makes Martin by turns a man admirably concerned about the well-being of others and a meddling fool. And Gemma Arterton makes Gemma Bovery radiant in both physical beauty and personal appeal, but somewhat dim—though not dumb—when it comes to intellectual matters. The rest of the cast is of as high a quality as one of Martin's fine loaves of bread—and definitely not low-cal.

So Vive! and “Jolly-Good” to all the French and British folks directly or indirectly responsible for Gemma Bovery—from 1856 to the present. 


“Footnote” to the film: Posy Simmonds also wrote a contemporary riff on another classic novel, Thomas Hardy's Far From the Madding Crowd (1874), about British provincial life. She changed the name of Hardy's heroine from Bathsheba Everdine to Tamara Drewe and gave that heroine's name to the novel. Tamara Drewe appeared as a film in 2010, starring—wait for it—Gemma Arterton as Tamara. And now an in-period version of Far From the Madding Crowd, with Carey Mulligan as Bathsheba, is playing in movie theaters at the same time as Gemma Bovery is circulating.

  

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Bamboozled: Avoid summer scams that offer travel freebies, free gift cards

Now that summer is in full swing, lots of consumers are thinking of booking a vacation. 
Scammers know it, and they're hoping to capitalize on your attempts to save a few bucks. 

They'll try to trick you with fake emails, phony Facebook offers and regular paper mailings that promise to save you money.

Don't fall for it. 

One popular email scam offers you a gift card or voucher in exchange for taking a survey. 
"This time of year, fake airline offers are particularly popular, but the `gift card' could be from any well-known brand," said the Better Business Bureau (BBB) in a warning on its web site. 

The offer tells you to click a link and complete a short customer survey. Sometimes the offer is via email, but you will also see similar posts on social media sites. 

What they all have in common is that they're frauds.
The BBB said the survey scams use a variety of tricks to lure consumers. 
The link you're referred to may lead to a real survey, but when you complete it, the gift card or voucher is "out of stock." Some will offer a consolation prize of free samples of "spammy products like diet pills and wrinkle cream," BBB said.

Other versions of the scam bring you to a survey, but the form will actually ask for your personal banking or credit card information. Click here to continue reading

A Masterful Ad From the Reagan Years

Republican presidential hopefuls agree, CNN reports: the greatest living president is Ronald Reagan.


Although the Great Communicator died 11 years ago, enthusiasm for the Reagan era is real, so here's a notable ad from 1985.

The skillfully crafted copy does a splendid job of selling the services of a trust bank, in this case Morgan Guaranty Trust Company. (By the 1980s, trust companies had begun to seem old hat, hence the alias, "The Morgan Bank.")

The Reagan era was probably the last in which claims of superior investment performance could be made without evoking snickers.


For those of a certain age, the Reagan Era may seem like only yesterday. Techwise, it was long, long ago. In 1985 this was a mobile phone:

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Uniform Fashion Show in Milford Aims to Curb Crime

A scene from 2009’s fashion show. Contributed Photo
A scene from 2009’s fashion show. Contributed Photo
MILFORD >> When someone comes knocking on your door, don’t just open it, warns Angela DeLeon, community relations specialist for People’s United Bank in Bridgeport.
“Unless you know who’s behind the door,” DeLeon said Wednesday.
People’s, the Police Department and the Westfield Connecticut Post mall are joining forces for a crime-fighting fashion show next week.
It is aimed at educating the public about the good and bad guys in their neighborhoods.
“Awareness is key,” DeLeon said. “We arm people with the weapon of awareness.”
More than a dozen municipal and private-sector “nonmodels” will show their uniforms and identification from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. June 25 at the mall, 1201 Boston Post Road, Level 1 near Macy’s. 
These people are the real deal, including representatives of animal control, an oil company, a water company, a caregiver group, a delivery company, and the city Fire, Police and Public Works departments. 
The awareness program aims at all ages, as anyone can be a target, Officer Joseph R. Dempsey of the Milford Police Department Crime Prevention Office said Wednesday. 
Youths home for the summer could also could be victims.
“We realize there are a lot of children at home in the summer,” DeLeon said.
The bank has been working to prevent crime for years, DeLeon said. It created a “master’s program” for seniors, and offers “safe teas,” along with purse patrols in grocery stores. 
“We’ve been doing the uniform fashion show for years,” DeLeon said. 
Dempsey said People’s Bank contacted the Police Department, wanting to bring back the fashion program; it last was offered here in 2009, he said. Click here to continue reading and to view safety tips.

Easy tips to drink more water throughout the day

(BPT) - You know drinking plenty of water every day is good for your health. The Institute of Medicine recommends men consume about 13 cups of fluid a day and women take in about 9 cups. Yet remembering to drink water may not always make the top of your daily to-do list.

Here are some tips to naturally incorporate drinking liquids into your day to give you the energy you need to accomplish everything on your to-do list:

* Always have a reusable water bottle with you. Tuck it into your purse or gym bag and have an extra one at your desk. You can find plenty of varieties in the stores, and you might even consider personalizing one so you remember it's yours and there for you. If the container is handy, you'll find yourself drinking out of it more often, just out of habit.

* Always make sure your water is freshly filtered. The new EveryDrop Ice and Water Refrigerator Filters are National Science Foundation certified to reduce more contaminants than comparable refrigerator filters, ensuring you're drinking the quality water you desire. Be sure you're replacing your ice and water refrigerator filters every six months, to continue to enjoy fresh, great tasting water at home.

* Add fun flavors to your water to change it up, or make fun "mocktails" with your friends. Just cut up oranges, lemons, grapes and other berries and immerse them in your water for a fruity drink. Purchase some travel flavor packets to add to your cup. Like tea? It's a great way to flavor your water, and it provides plenty of other benefits, too.

* Get out and explore all the watering holes in your community. When on a walk, run or bike ride through your community parks, tuck the EveryDrop Portable Water Filter into your purse or bag. It filters one gallon of water in just two minutes, so when you fill up at a water fountain location, you don't have to wait to get fresh, great tasting water.

With these tools, you'll discover it's easy to stay hydrated throughout the day. Here's a toast to you for drinking more water, staying hydrated and feeling great. Cheers.




Simple precautions can help thwart common vacation scam

s(BPT) - Bags packed? Check! Tickets in hand? Check! Perfect! You're all set to embark on your dream vacation. Before you head out the door, you should know that scammers, identity thieves and fraudsters rarely take vacations. Instead, they wait for you to take yours.

"When people plan vacations, they let their guard down," says David Barnhardt, payments product line leader at Early Warning, an Arizona-based fraud prevention company. "Fraudsters know this, and they have a whole bag of tricks created specifically for people in a vacation frame of mind."

Enjoy your vacation, he says, but exercise good judgment. That suggestion syncs perfectly with similar advice offered by both the Better Business Bureau and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC). Their websites each devote pages of precautions about potential travel scams - some of which can happen long before you pack your suitcase.

Many pre-vacation scams, the FTC warns, can begin with unsolicited vacation e-mails announcing amazing travel deals. The agency says if an offer sounds too-good-to-be-true, be wary.

Barnhardt, who also worked in law enforcement for eight years, agrees. "If you get an e-mail announcing you have won a 'free' vacation, be careful," he says. "Chances are before long you will be asked to provide someone with a credit card number to confirm your reservation. You would be surprised how many people fall for that scam."

Credit card numbers are the gold-standard for many fraudsters, he says. And one way to protect your card, Barnhardt advises, is to place a travel flag on your credit and debit cards. Those flags can help card issuers quickly identify suspicious charges.

"If charges are swiped outside of your vacation dates, it can signal a compromised card," he says.

Barnhardt also recommends travelers use credit cards instead of debit cards.

"Simply put, credit cards draw on credit lines, whereas a debit card hack means your money is actually withdrawn from your account," he says. "That can cause an overdraft, which means overdraft charges. You may get your money back, but it often means you may need to file a police report, which can be a huge headache, especially if you're overseas. Plus you may have to explain to your creditors why your payments were returned and work with your institution to get penalty fees reversed as well."

Credit cards are also the safer method of payment when you're asked to put a deposit on a vacation rental.

"If a website advertises a gorgeous house or condo and the property owner asks that you wire a deposit, a red flag should immediately go up," says Barnhardt. "Don't do it. Money wired is money gone. Unlike a credit card deposit, once you wire money, you cannot get it back."

And - after you have arrived at your destination - it pays to stay alert. "Hotels and motels can be breeding grounds for fraud," says Barnhardt.

One prevalent travel scam that the FTC warns about involves a late-night phone call to your room allegedly from the front desk at a hotel, motel or resort. The caller claims there is a problem with the credit card and asks the guest to read the number over the phone. The obvious solution: make a trip to the front desk to speak with someone in person.

Barnhardt also warns of another lodging-related credit card scam currently in vogue: fliers slid under hotel-room doors offering pizza delivered right to your room.

"This sounds great to a hungry traveler, but if you call and they ask for your credit card number, it's better to hang up the phone and ask the front desk to recommend local eateries," he says.

Exercise caution when logging onto the hotel's free Wi-Fi network, says Barnhardt.

"Just about every hotel and motel provides free Wi-Fi," he says. "But fraudsters have perfected the art of mimicking legitimate networks. Logging onto a fake Wi-Fi network can put all the data stored in your tablet or phone in jeopardy."

Once again, he says, the best solution is to ask before acting.

"Check with the front desk," he says. "Make sure you are using the hotel's authorized network and they've supplied you with a secure Wi-Fi password. A bogus Wi-Fi can be outsmarted just by being cautious. Vacation time is about relaxing, but don't relax your common sense."

In other words, follow the FTC's advice to vacationers: "When it comes to a travel deal, exercise doubt and check it out.