Tuesday, March 6, 2018

Movie Review—I, Tonya

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by Peter J. O’Connell

I, Tonya. Released: Dec. 2017. Runtime: 120 mins. MPAA Rating: R for pervasive language, violence, and some sexual content/nudity.

Mothers were memorable figures in a number of movies over the past year. For example, there was the title character played by Jennifer Lawrence in Darren Aronofsky’s odd allegory, Mother! And there was the agnostic mother (Julianne Nicholson) and the Reverend Mother (Melissa Leo, who contended for the heart and mind of a young nun in Novitiate. And there was the mom (Laurie Metcalf)—both hassled and hassling--in Lady Bird. Perhaps most memorable of all was LaVona Fay Golden (Allison Janney), merciless mater of figure skater Tonya Harding (Margot Robbie), in the tragicomic biopic I, Tonya, directed by Craig Gillespie and written by Steven Rogers.

I, Tonya’s chronicle of the relationship between Tonya and her mother—and other key figures in the skater’s life—is done in a kind of “mockumentary” way, based, as an on-screen text says, on “mostly true, wildly contradictory” actual interviews. Though some actual footage is included in the film, most of the interviews are “faux” ones. There are also direct addresses by characters that “break the fourth wall” of the unfolding drama. The Tonya character sums up one of the story’s themes as: “There’s no such thing as truth. It’s bull. Everyone has their own truth, and life does whatever it wants. “

But for much of her life, Tonya has to do what her mother wants. Noting Tonya’s natural ability at skating, LaVona arranges for her daughter (played as a child by Maizie Smith and McKenna Grace) to begin expensive skating lessons at the age of four years. This was a sacrifice for LaVona, a waitress, to make. Her family, a Pacific Northwest equivalent of “rednecks,” was financially constrained.

This initial sacrifice, however, proves quite problematic, and most of the time LaVona—a cigarillo-chomping, fiercely foul-mouthed harridan, often with a bird, and always with a “chip,” on her shoulder—verbally and emotionally abuses Tonya. Sometimes the abuse is physical. Joan Crawford, played by Faye Dunaway in Mommy Dearest (1981), notoriously beat her daughter with metal coat hangers, but LaVona throws knives at hers.

Strangely, although she arranged for skating lessons, LaVona undercuts Tonya’s self-esteem when she competes, and she doesn’t help her child with costuming, musical choices, etc. In one of the pungent passages with which the script is replete, the mother/daughter dynamic is summed up thusly: LaVona—“I made you a champion, knowing you’d hate me for it. That’s the sacrifice a mother makes! I wish I’d had a mother like me instead of nice. Nice gets you s---! I didn’t like my mother either, so what? I f------ gave you a gift!” Tonya—“You cursed me.”

Tonya does get love and respect from her father (Jason Davis), but he eventually divorces LaVona and leaves the family. Predictably, Tonya as an adolescent turns to a boyfriend, Jeff Gillooly (Sebastian Stan), as a daddy substitute. Predictably, Jeff starts abusing her, even after they marry, much as her mother had.
The skating establishment of the 1980s and early 1990s, in its way, also abuses Tonya. They prefer balletic princess-types rather than an athletic type such as the sassy Tonya (who can be as foul-mouthed as her mother). But Tonya perseveres, and when she becomes only the second woman ever to perform the incredibly difficult triple-axel jump in international competition, respect finally comes her way. At that moment, as the best figure skater in the world, she is a glowing champion!

But as recognition comes Tonya Harding’s way, so does scandal, one of the most notorious scandals in sports history. As the 1994 Winter Olympics approach, Tonya has Nancy Kerrigan as her main competition. Much loose talk and little intelligent thought characterize Tonya’s circle of Jeff, Shawn Eckhardt (Paul Walker Hauser), and some other dimbulbs. Under circumstances whose nature is contested in “wildly contradictory” stories by those involved, Kerrigan is brutally struck on the knee in an attempt to disable her from competition. But she recovers and beats Tonya at the Games. Jeff, Shawn, and Tonya are convicted of various crimes, and Tonya is banned from competitive figure skating for life.

Tonya reflects on her life and the larger scene, the American scene, of which her life is a part: “America. They want someone to love; they want someone to hate.” And: “I was loved for a minute; then I was hated. Then I was just a punch line.” And, addressing the movie audience: “It was like being abused all over again. Only this time it was by you. All of you. You’re all my attackers too.”

There are characters in I, Tonya who are dimbulbs, but the movie’s makers and cast perform brilliantly. Gillespie and Rogers have given the film an imaginative and innovative structure, with dialogue frequently as sharp as a skate blade. Margot Robbie leaves her blonde bimbo persona from previous films behind to create a multidimensional Tonya—abuse victim, glowing champion, tough broad. Her performance is the acting equivalent of a triple axel, which is matched by Allison Janney as a “mommy damnedest.”


“Footnotes” to the film: (1) Through her youth and adolescence, Allison Janney trained seriously to become a figure skater. At age 17, however, she accidentally walked into a glass door and gravely injured her right leg. She had to spend weeks in the hospital and missed her first year of college. After that she didn’t skate for a very long time. (2) In 1993 I, Tonya’s director, Craig Gillespie, directed a Campbell’s Soup commercial starring Nancy Kerrigan. 


       

76-Year-Old Blogger Navigates Aging With Cancer

Pancreatic Cancer

“It’s a shadow chasing behind you constantly,” says popular Time Goes By blogger Ronni Bennett. Her site’s tagline is “What it’s really like to get old,” but Bennett, 76, is now writing about more than aging. Eight months ago, she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.
After posting the news that she referred to as a “kick in the gut,” it triggered a virtual international support system from readers of love, prayers and assurances. Those living close by also offered food, transportation and even pet-sitting for Bennett’s cat, Ollie.
As we grow older, we most likely will become familiar with cancer, whether it’s with family, friends or ourselves. In fact, its diagnosis isn’t all that uncommon. Age is actually the greatest risk factor, according to Cancer.net, and 60 percent of those with cancer are 65 years and older. This group also makes up 60 percent of survivors.
When readers asked Bennett if she’d write about the daily life of a cancer patient, she said yes, allowing now a glimpse into not just what it’s like to get old, but to also be really sick. She openly talks about good days and bad, where she stands on having a bucket list and what it’s like to be the most afraid she’s ever been.
Here are a few thoughts Bennett, a former network TV producer and writer and managing editor of the first CBS News website, shared during an interview in December: Click here to continue reading.

Age With Grace – Tips for a Better Life--Meriden Library

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Movie Review—Lady Bird

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by Peter J. O’Connell

Ladybird. Released: Dec. 2017. Runtime: 94 mins. MPAA Rating: R for language, sexual content, brief graphic nudity, and teen partying.

Christine McPherson (Saoirse Ronan) decides to start calling herself “Lady Bird.” Presumably, it’s because she remembers the “fly away” phrase from the nursery rhyme. Christine definitely wants to fly away. She is a 17-year-old student at Immaculate Heart, a Catholic girls’ school in Sacramento, in 2002, who desperately wants to go to college in New York City, “where the culture is” (or “at least Connecticut”).  

However, Christine’s mother, Marion (Laurie Metcalf), wants her daughter to go to college nearby so as to save money. Christine’s efforts to “take flight” over the course of her senior year in high school, and the consequent clashes with her mother, are depicted in Lady Bird, a piquant/poignant coming-of-age “dramedy,” meticulously written and directed by Greta Gerwig.

Lady Bird’s efforts at flight begin inauspiciously and go on from there. Taken on a tour of California colleges by her mother, the girl’s persistent interest in going to New York leads to an argument with Marion while the two are in a car. Impulsively, Lady Bird throws herself from the car, injuring her wing . . . arm.

Lady Bird’s family lives on the “wrong side of the tracks.” In the Sacramento context, that means a modest house—“one bathroom for five people”—in a pleasant neighborhood. The three other people besides Laurie and Lady Bird are Lady Bird’s father (Tracy Letts), her adopted brother (Jordan Rodrigues), and Jordan’s girlfriend (Marielle Scott). Lady Bird’s father suffers from depression and his hold on a job is shaky. Marion, who works two shifts, is the one really holding the family together. And she’s starting to feel the strain.

As Lady Bird’s senior year unfolds, her “wing” (arm) gradually heals, and she undergoes various ups and downs in her efforts to fly away from Sacramento and her strong but strained mother. Lady Bird says that she knows that Marion “loves her,” but she wonders if her mother actually “likes her.” Marion tells Lady Bird that she always has encouraged her daughter to be the best version of Christine that Christine can be. Lady Bird worries that “what is” is already the best that she ever could be.

“What is” is a pale, lanky, gangly, stringy-haired, long-faced, skinny-legged adolescent in a dorky uniform—who occasionally shows flashes of idiosyncratic beauty. “What is” is an underachieving young woman of great potential. Saoirse Ronan’s performance as Lady Bird is so good that one might say that it is the best that could conceivably have been done in this role. That might also almost be said of Laurie Metcalf in the role of Marion.

Though Lady Bird refers to her school as “Immaculate Fart” rather than Immaculate Heart, she doesn’t really dislike it. Unlike many Hollywood depictions in recent years of religious people and institutions as rigid and repressive, Gerwig—a director with a marvelously balanced approach to characters and situations—presents this parochial school as staffed by caring and competent, though sometimes slightly goofy, folks. Lois Smith as Sister Sarah Joan, the assistant principal, is a particularly endearing figure. After Lady Bird and a friend pull a prank on her by putting a sign “Just Married to Jesus” on her car, Sister gently chides Lady Bird by saying, “Actually, married for 40 years.” Lady Bird replies, “He was a lucky guy.”

As her senior year goes on, Lady Bird has an in-and-out relationship with a school play, an off-again/on-again (and vice versa) relationship with two different kinds of girl friends (Odeya Rush, Beanie Feldstein—topnotch), an on-again/off-again (and vice versa) relationship with two different kinds of boyfriends (Lucas Hedges, Timothee Chalamet), encounters with drugs and drink—all presented as simultaneously serious (but not somber) and amusing (but not farcical). Drily witty dialogue ripples throughout the film without calling undue attention to itself.


Eventually, of course, Lady Bird has to come to terms with both her college situation and her relationship with her mother. Does she come to realize that in the nursery rhyme, the “ladybird” is not a child but a mother who flies to see if her children are safe when their house is burning? Take a flight yourself to a theatre to see this wonderful film and find out!  

Friday, February 9, 2018

More Than A Dozen Athletes With Connecticut Ties Will Compete With The U.S. Olympic Team In Pyeongchang


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Eight athletes from Connecticut will be among the more than 200 competing for the United States at the 2018 Winter Olympics. There’s two members of the luge team, two snowboarders, two aerial skiers who happen to both be from Madison, an ice dancer and a hockey player.
But that’s not where the Connecticut connections end.
Several others involved with the men and women’s hockey teams will head to Pyeongchang to compete or coach for the U.S.
Some went to school in Connecticut, while others passed through while playing professionally.
“We are incredibly proud to have a group of talented, powerful, and determined athletes from Connecticut representing our nation on an international stage in one of the most prominent sporting events in the world,” Governor Dannel P. Malloy said in a statement. “Although the games might be taking place on the other side of the globe, you can bet that there will be a vocal contingent of supporters in Connecticut cheering on our hometown stars. We congratulate all of the athletes on their impressive accomplishments and wish them the best of luck in the coming days.” Click here to continue reading.

Movie Review—Hostiles

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by Peter J. O'Connell

Hostiles. Released widely: Jan. 2018. Runtime:134 mins. MPAA Rating: R for strong violence and for language.

“The essential American soul is hard, isolate, stoic, and a killer. It has never yet melted.”--D.H. Lawrence

The sense of an ending hangs over the beginning of Hostiles (directed by Scott Cooper from his screenplay, based on a manuscript by Donald E. Stewart). In 1892 New Mexico a renegade band of Comanches nearly wipes out a family on an isolated homestead. A father is scalped and three children, including an infant in swaddling clothes, are killed along with him. Only the wife/mother, Rosalie Quaid (Rosamund Pike), survives, traumatized.

At the same time at Fort Berringer, in the territory, Capt. Joseph J. Blocker (Christian Bale) is treating some Apache captives harshly, while looking forward to his impending retirement after a long career as a noted Indian fighter. Also at Fort Berringer, Yellow Hawk (Wes Studi), a Chyenne chief who battled Blocker in the past and has been confined for seven years, is dying of cancer and has asked to be allowed to return with some family members to his ancestral homeland in Montana for his last days. In effect, the traditional Native American way of life is dying out. The Indian wars came to an end with the 1890 massacre of Sioux and Cheyenne by the U.S. Cavalry at Wounded Knee, South Dakota—Blocker was there—though occasional raids by renegade bands still occur. In fact, the frontier itself as a specific area of the country is vanishing also. In 1890 the U.S. Census Bureau declared that the frontier no longer existed as a demographic category. 

Capt. Blocker seems the embodiment of that essential American soul described by D.H. Lawrence in the quote from his Studies in Classic American Literature (1923) that appears on screen at the beginning of Hostiles. Ramrod-straight, scarred, squint-eyed, scowling, Blocker almost seems to exist within a carapace of hardness, isolation, stoicism, and skill at killing. But, it would seem, the traditional breed of Indian fighter is now being dissed rather than praised as in the past. Blocker clashes over Indian policy with a liberal journalist from Connecticut (Bill Camp) and is outraged when his commanding officer (Stephen Lang) tells him that Washington, now in a more tolerant mood toward Indians, has granted Yellow Hawk's request and that Blocker is to take a squad and escort the chief and his family members to Montana. Blocker has to be threatened with court-martial before he will accept this assignment.

Shortly after leaving the fort, Blocker considers killing Yellow Hawk with a knife, but doesn't. Instead, he puts chains on the chief and his family. Later the squad comes across the burned-out Quaid homestead from the Comanche raid. Rosalie is still there and is terrified by the sight of Yellow Hawk and his family. She starts to relent, however, when the Natives treat her kindly. When the Comanches show up again and attack Blocker's group, in a brilliantly choreographed battle on horseback, Rosalie shows herself to be a formidable fighter. Yellow Hawk and his family also persuade Blocker to unchain them so that they can fight the Comanches, which they do to great effect. The renegade Comanches and the Cheyenne are hostile to each other.

Observing these developments, Blocker begins a learning process that will continue throughout the journey north. Women, as well as men, can be warriors. Native Americans are not all the same. They have differences among themselves. And vicious clashes with fur trappers, land barons, and a prisoner added to Blocker's group along the way show that whites can be villains as well as victims. “Hostiles” come in all colors and from within as well as without. 

Blocker is not inherently “hard, etc.” He reads Roman literature, says that he believes in God, praises a black soldier, respects the help from Yellow Hawk and his family, has deep regard for men who have served with him in the past, and feels romantic stirrings for Rosalie. But his past experiences have shaped him to an extent that is difficult to undo,. In some respects, he is suffering from PTSD and cognitive dissonance. After all, that white prisoner has been sentenced to hang for acts of hostility in the present that Blocker was commended for in the past! Can Blocker's learning process also become a healing process?

Scott Cooper and his cinematographer handle the changing landscape of the journey beautifully as arid scrubland yields to forested slopes and then to verdant grasslands. The score is powerful but restrained. The same might be said of the performances by Bale, Pike, and Studi, with strong support from the rest of the cast. And, of course, there are some allusions to classic Westerns. The emperor of Austria is said to have commented to Mozart that the composer's music had “too many notes.” Some may feel that Hostiles has “too many themes.” But for others these themes come together in the film's conclusion when Blocker faces a moment of existential choice. Can he “unblock”--unmelt--his soul—and begin a new life in a changing world?  


“Footnotes” to the film: (1) In Terrence Malick's The New World (2005), about the Jamestown Colony, Q'orianka Kilcher, who plays Yellow Hawk's daughter in Hostiles, played Pocahontas and Christian Bale played her white husband, John Rolfe. (2) Historians have called the 1890s a “watershed decade” because it was such a time of transition. Seven Western territories were admitted as states from 1889 to 1896. The Indian wars as major conflicts ended. The Census Bureau declared that the frontier had ceased to be. Historian Frederick Jackson Turner at the Columbian Exposition/Chicago World's Fair in 1893, celebrating the 400th anniversary of Columbus' landings in the New World, presented his enormously influential thesis claiming that the frontier experience had shaped the American national character. (3) Scholars of American culture have often discussed several archetypes of the “American national character”:
 • The “essential American,” per D.H. Lawrence. Think Capt. Ahab or Gen. Patton and certain characters played by John Wayne, Clint Eastwood, Charles Bronson.
 • The “Adamic American.” Brilliantly delineated by R.W.B. Lewis in his The American Adam: Innocence, Tragedy, and Tradition in the Nineteenth Century. Like Adam before the Fall, sees himself as at one with God, Nature, others. If he does fall from grace, he tries to turn that development into a “fortunate fall.” Think Walt Whitman, Norman Rockwell scenes, and certain characters played by Henry Fonda, Jimmy Stewart, Tom Hanks. 
 • The “ugly American.” The term came into use following the popularity of William J. Lederer and Eugene Burdick's novel The Ugly American (1958). In the novel the “ugly American” is actually an admirable character, but over time the term has morphed and come to refer to a rude, crude, ignorant, arrogant person. Think Archie Bunker (blue-collar version) or Tom Buchanan in The Great Gatsby (nouveau-riche version) or the U.S. tourist complaining that the people in a foreign country are speaking a foreign language.      




     

Economical, Tweakable Hamburger Soup



Besides opening a can, there can hardly be an easier homemade soup than this simple, tasty hamburger soup. Depending on the contents of your fridge and spice rack you can tweak this one to add vegetables or beans, grains or pasta; or to change the flavor from plain to Tex-Mex or Italian.
One pound of ground chuck, onion, garlic, water, some canned tomatoes and a handful of rice is all that is required. Really.
Brown the burger with chopped onion and garlic, add half a can or so of tomatoes whole or chopped, water to cover and simmer away for half hour to an hour. Add salt and pepper, then for additional flavor oregano and basil, or chili powder and red pepper flakes.
That is all that is required for a basic hamburger soup. Add as much tomato as you like or have. Its job is to add color and flavor, but you don’t necessarily want tomato soup with hamburger in it when you are done. It might not be a bad idea to do as I and Leslie Lavendar in Stockton Springs do, and check the fridge or freezer for bits and pieces of leftovers too good to toss or compost.
Leslie wrote to say she tries to work down the house supply in January and February. Here’s what she found recently that was too good to throw away but too small a supply to make a whole serving by itself: “I had about 1 1/2 cups of a leftover zucchini, onion, pepper, tomato mix I had made earlier in the week. I found a scant pound of stew meat in the freezer along with some small amounts of frozen peas and lima beans and about a dozen frozen spinach/cheese ravioli (not enough for an entree).” If she had had this recipe for hamburger soup, she could have used the vegetables in it; instead, she wrote, “I used a quart of my homemade zesty tomato sauce and a can of chickpeas to create a sort of Italian-inspired vegetable soup. It’s making a lovely, thick hearty soup that I’ll serve with some crusty bread and a salad.” Click here to continue reading.